Monday, April 23, 2012

It's easy being green

That's what a little green dragon on my sleep shirt used to say!

With Earth day just passing by, there's a lot of talk going on about being earth friendly, going greeen, recycling, etc... the guy at Honda showroom proudly displayed a new 2012 Civic and pointed out that it's using natural gas...well you know what I mean - "WE NEED TO SAVE PLANET EARTH!!"

I'm doing my bit...going Whole Foods-ing, recycling products religiously, no rinsing dishes before putting them in the dish washer, even trying to reduce Mota's carbon paw-print. I was reading an article on this "going green" issue and it seemed so funny to me that for the first 23 years of my life, the societal practices I grew up in were completely earth friendly.

I hated that damp plaid dishcloth in the kitchen, that used to air dry near the kitchen window and argued with my mom on how disgusting it looked and implored her to get rid of it. Now Martha Stewart is saying how important it is to have reusable dishcloths in the kitchen and not use disposable paper towels any more!

Our produce used to come from local farmers, bought at farmers' market kind of places. The grocery and produce came home in reusable shopping bags (BYOB that is). We didn't eat any processed food. Poultry and fish were bought as fresh as possible. Diet was balanced - with carbs, protein and veggies in balanced portions. I don't remember seeing a single obese person in Calcutta.

Also, clothes were handwashed and dried out on clotheslines on an open terrace. People wore sweaters in winter and in summer, opened windows to let in the cool breeze. We started having air-conditioners just a few years back. Before that those luxuries were only for the affluent families.

Most people still use public transport. Cars are only for the rich. Also, we hardly saw a single person in a car. If you tell them that 2 people in a car can drive on the HOV lane, they'll look at you with a strange expression! That way the entire city would only have HOVs!!

Our mattresses were made of coir, 100% natural and organic. We turned off lights and fans from every room while going out. Nobody ever left applliances plugged in when those were not in use.

Remember those herbal beauty packs that Shehnaz Hussain markets? It's exactly those we can buy at Whole Foods!

No one ever drank bottled water. There are water filters in every home and those who cannot afford that, drink water pumped out from deep tubewells. People going to school or work would always have lunch packed from home, in stainless steel containers (that are always reusable). Dishes were never washed in warm water. If you need to heat water, either you heat it on a stove or keep a bucket of water in the sun to warm it. Talk about solar heaters!

We had a person, Abdul dada, come to our home to take all old newspapers and glass bottles and containers of all shapes and sizes. He would actually buy them from us at a nominal cost and then sell it to people who would reuse the glass bottles and make paper bags out of the old newspapers. Some families actually thrive on the income from making paper bags.

I am sure all societies all over the world were much more "green" before. I agree that the main reason for these actions were not to be "environment friendly" but to be more economic. Nonetheless, the outcomes were as "green" as possible.

Living a modern city life is easy, isn't it? Driving is less strenuous than walking. Turning the heat on is more comfortable that wearing a sweater....but now it's time to think about our actions and time to go back to our roots!

!!! GIVE A HOOT, BE GREEN !!!

Monday, April 16, 2012

In favor of growing up

Most people cherish their childhood memories... comforts of the family, carefree afternoons, long summer vacations are definitely things to be cherished. I used to go to an international students' group in UAB and remember having an ice-breaker where we all talked about our favorite childhood memories. One guy said he missed the afternoon naps, another girl said she missed going for long drives with her parents, another "Daddy's girl" missed those days when she was tiny and could sit on her dad's knees. My fond memories are Saturday afternoons when everyone in our joint family would be home!

On second thoughts, however, not everything was so rosy. Here are my top reasons in favor of growing up:

10. Go to bed and wake up WHENEVER you feel like. Who cares? And what if you just have a cup of coffee for breakfast?


9. Get paid for what you do. Not wasting millions of hours sitting on the benches and listening to pointless chatter of the teacher. Now my "time is money". My school didn't pay me to study there, on the other hand I was the one who paid them. My company behaves better in that respect.

8. No limited screen time. Who monitors how many times I played Fruit Ninja from the morning? No one! As much as you want TV viewing, Facebook time and video games. Isn't this good enough to grow up?
Who says caffeine is not one
of the major food groups?

7. Have a car in your control and go ANYWHERE you want to. (Mine's not here yet, but this one's just in anticipation.)

6. Not bundle up if you don't feel cold. Well, I might just want to wear that shorts and boots in winter. Why not?

5. Eat your favorite foods all through the day. I had 4 pieces of Ilish for lunch and then again for dinner. Would I ever dare to do that at home? Haha! That's what a rhetorical question is.


Me during April-May 2003

4. How about eating out? I don't know how many times I ate out while I was at home. But sometimes you just need "good food" which you don't have to cook yourself.

3. Buy crazy things for yourself and don't have to answer what exact purpose you need that for. When I bought my set of 48 glittery/neon/metallic gel pens did I know how many scrapbook pages I'd fill out with them?


2. No home work! When I lock my desktop at the end of the work day, what happened in there, stays there. I don't have to complete a test code at home and submit that to my manager the next morning and be graded on that. 

The final one-
1. No EXAMS! Yesss!! I am done with them... Higher Secondary and WB-JEE....and you guys are the reason I don't ever want to go back to my school days.

Thursday, April 12, 2012

Humanity

To follow up my last post on irreligion, this one's about humanitarian spiritualism (that's quite a mouthful). Well, in short, that means humanity to me. As you all know by now that religion is not really my cup of tea (or coffee, for that matter), I have no interest in serving God. Does that mean I'm going towards a wayward life with no guiding light?

Honey - our first foster girl
No, not that.

My idea is to have humanity and serve others. Not to secure a place in Heaven, nor to have a better life in your next birth, but to let you give back something to the society, to the world that has given you so much. It comes out of gratitude, not from arrogance. You give not to show, but to serve.

May - the pretty lady
Some people think that we should prioritize helping people over helping animals. I don't feel so. Humans at least can fend for themselves but animals can't speak out. So, like ASPCA says - "we are their voice", we have to help them. I'm never saying we don't need to care for people, but that shouldn't come at the cost of not caring for other animals. I am absolutely certain that by no means my friends, who are going to read this article would indulge in abusing animals. However, there are ways by which we unknowingly do support illegal breeders or other unethical practices that harm animals. Please, please do consider adopting your new pet instead of buying him from a pet shop. By buying animals people not only downgrade those precious lives to mere commodities, but also indulge backyard breeders who run puppy mills. There dogs are forcefully made to breed so that they turn out to "produce" puppies like stuff from mills. ASPCA and the Humane Society are trying real hard to stop this and we need to do our best to help that.
If you have pets, do spay/neuter them. Animals don't have any mental connection to having babies so spaying/neutering them is the best thing we can do to stop having unwanted litters (most of them end up at shelters, or die without proper care) and also not having our resident pet contract diseases by mating with feral cats and other animals.

There are many ways to help animals. If you have some spare time, try to volunteer at a nearby shelter. Or if you have the means, you can foster an animal that needs care or just needs a break from shelter life. When we brought May from the Seattle Humane Society she was so happy to get out of that cramped cage (with her food dish, litter box and cat bed all within inches from one another) to a room just for herself - with plush blankets, a window seat and catnip toys! She is a happy girl now, getting healthy fast with an active lifestyle :-)

It's not just about your pets, but other animals are in need of love and care as well. If you hang a birdfeeder you'll see how many tiny birds would come to your yard. We have hummingbirds and blue jays and a lot more whom I don't really know come and peck at the nuts and sunflower seeds we put out for them. A friend of mine took great pains to save baby hummingbirds from falling out of their nest when there was a strong wind blowing. I am yet to see the squirrels in our yard but I know they are frequent visitors because the corn degenerates to just the cob really fast!

Cuddly furry cub
Momma's boy
The world is so beautiful because we all live together in here. Can you imagine a forest with no Royal Bengal tigers, or the Arctic Polar Cap with no furry Polar bear walking with two fluffy cubs in tow? In the same way I don't want to have a house where there's no furry friend waiting for me or a garden where birds don't come chirping in....

Taking care of animals is not so difficult, it only needs a lot of love...they realize it when you love them, it makes them feel good...and you'll see that in their eyes...

Wednesday, April 11, 2012

Irreligion

Wikipedia says "irreligion" can mean many things and includes agnosticism, atheism and secular humanism. I would lean more towards agnosticism because that is close to religious scepticism and free thought. As the "rebel without a cause" I have always been, I take care not to follow things that do not make any sense to me. A major chunk of that would fall under religion and rituals.

I don't want to have anything to do with religion, or organized religion when it comes to "my God is better than yours" and "if you don't believe in my God, then you are a non-believer". That is the leading cause of violence and wars all through history and way up to today. Another thing that do not make sense to me is the gazillion rituals. Firstly, choosing which idol you want to worship is a hectic one. Given that you can zero down on one, you need to figure out the right rituals, then hire a priest to act as your go-between to God (or gods/goddesses) and finally by the time you sit down for the actual worship, you are so engrossed in following the rituals to a meticulous detail that you forget the entire purpose of worshipping. To quote Rabindranath at this point, he said তোমার পূজার ছলে তোমায় ভুলেই থাকি ("I have forgotten you amidst trying to worship you").

It's no wonder that I am not a theist but before I come to being an atheist or agnostic or transtheist or "absolutely nothing that I can think of", let me tell you a little bit about Carl Sagan. 

Unlike the other people whose thoughts I admire, Carl Sagan entered my life when I was already in my 20s and my thoughts (read freethoughts) on humanity and spiritualism were well formed. What I found in Sagan's writing was a deeper echo of what was already inside my head, explained in a far superior way with unquestionable points. There have been way too many incidents when I have exclaimed "exactly!" or "yes, yes, yes" while reading Sagan's works. For those of you who have read "Contact", you'll understand my point. Ellie Arroway's argument with Palmer Joss and Brother Rankin is a chapter which I have probably read thousands of times.

Now to the question of what I am.... I am an agnostic. Why so? Because I am not sure of the existence of God. Then why not call myself an atheist? Because I am not sure the other way as well. Here's what Carl Sagan has said about agnosticism (he was one of the tribe too) -
Put on your (free) thinking cap!
"An atheist is someone who is certain that God does not exist, someone who has compelling evidence against the existence of God. I know of no such compelling evidence. Because God can be relegated to remote times and places and to ultimate causes, we would have to know a great deal more about the universe than we do now to be sure that no such God exists. To be certain of the existence of God and to be certain of the nonexistence of God seem to me to be the confident extremes in a subject so riddled with doubt and uncertainty as to inspire very little confidence indeed".

This is why I like free thinking.... think before you do anything, don't cloud your judgement with dogma or conservative traditionalism. Don't just follow what's always been there, try to lead to something that's not yet formed - a new idea, a new act. Talk to other people to know different aspects of the same thing, expand your horizons (like Sidhu-jetha said, মনের দরজা জানালা গুলো খুলে রাখো - keep the doors and windows of your mind open) and let's not worry about after life, just make most of the one we are living now. 

Take a look at this url of zenpencils, it's worth the hassle of going to it. 

Tuesday, April 03, 2012

Spectacular spectacles

A blogger friend of mine recently commented that she can't hear, taste or practically understand anything without wearing her spectacles. I totally agree to that! For people who don't wear glasses, it's impossible to understand the pleasures and pains of having one.

Before I was born, when the crazy business of meiosis was happening and chromosomes were sorting themselves out, they (I don't know who) copy pasted that part from my dad's chromosomes which contained the information about my eyes. So it happened that I inherited a high myopia and astigmatism and I have been wearing glasses since 1990.

In all these 22 years, my glasses have transformed from tiny aviator shaped shell framed ones (with a cord round my neck) to comparatively light ones with high index glass and finally to a high index, reflective coated one in thin metal frame...whatever their looks may be, they have all become a part of myself and I really can never imagine my life without them.

I have contact lenses but I really don't like to wear them. Perhaps because of my astigmatism, lenses don't fit me properly and make me crabby and irritated. An exception was my wedding day and a couple more times when I was elaborately dressed up. As I don't care that much about my looks and I don't wear dangling ear-rings anyway so I can override looks for comfort.

There are times when they make life difficult - say for example those incidents in my childhood when I was cautioned "don't do that, you'll break your glasses" or the difficulty in swimming or playing cricket when glasses can make you feel totally miserable...but with all the other stuff glasses don't interfere. Unlike lenses, you don't go crazy when a speck of dust lands on your eyes or you don't need to take them off when you sleep. (Yes, you can sleep wearing your disposable lenses but is it very comfortable?) There are other reasons too -
You have a protective shield between your eyes and that disgusting half chopped onion that emits horrible fumes to make you weep.
You will be called 4 eyed. That's something I like! People have 2, I have 4 for free so I'm in a better position :-)
People with glasses look smarter than their non-glassed counterparts. So, some people wear glasses just for fashion. I have been made a fashionista from my childhood in this regard!

Wear your's with pride!
From the time my alarm goes off and I fumble on my bedside table for my glasses, to the time I take them off my nose and put them back on the bedside table, they are with me in every step of life. It will be impossible (literally so) to take a single step without them.

With my glasses sitting on top of my nose, the ends secured to the back of my ears I am ready to take on the world!! Haha, bring it on!!!


[PS: Some people say "boys don't make passes to girls who wear glasses" but that's utterly non-sense. Wear your's with pride!]